One of my favorite shows growing up was Quantum Leap. The idea of the science behind it and the ability to change the tragedies of our lives and the world. To go back and take the high road instead of the one you chose. The theory is nice but the reality is that God has a plan and no matter what road you choose he will use it for his greater good; his plan is inevitable your plan is full of flaws.
We can plan all we want but when God says no you have to do this or go here or say this; don’t argue or fight it because it is a losing battle to fight against God. God has us in his hands and the only thing you do when you fight God is toss and turn in his hands until you pass out from exhaustion. I know; I have done this.
Through daily prayer and surrender you will know Gods will.
1 Timothy 2:1-4 First of all, then, I urge that supplications, prayers, intercessions, and thanksgivings be made for all people, for kings and all who are in high positions, that we may lead a peaceful and quiet life, godly and dignified in every way. This is good, and it is pleasing in the sight of God our Savior, who desires all people to be saved and to come to the knowledge of the truth.
Romans 12:2 And be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what is that good, and acceptable, and perfect, will of God.